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15 June 2007

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The power of a masculine leadership model

Have you heard about this church that’s building itself on a military metaphor? It’s led by a general, not a bishop. Their clergy are not referred to as pastors, priests or vicars –  instead it’s captain, major, colonel and commander. Officers go through seven years of training and are barred from earning outside income. This church even tells officers whom they can and cannot marry.

Membership requirements are rigorous. When you join this church, you are referred to as a soldier. You must sign a declaration of faith and practice known as Articles of War, and you are required to give volunteer service to the church. You’re required to abstain from all tobacco, illegal drugs and alcohol. The organization’s magazine is called War Cry!

Sounds like some weird cult, doesn’t it? So what’s the name of this unusual church? The Salvation Army.

You may not realize it, but the Salvation Army is a church. Unlike most churches, it’s not known for its worship services. Instead, it’s known for helping people. And no church feeds more, clothes more or comforts more. The church has only about 600,000 members, but this year alone it will help more than 30 million people. The Salvation Army is at work in more than 100 countries around the globe.

How is it possible to accomplish so much with so few members? While most churches are built around an academic model, the Salvationists are building on a military model. The entire church is structured for outreach. As a result of this structure, the Army is able to accomplish more social service than all other denominations combined.

What lessons can the local church learn from the Salvation Army?

·      A masculine organizational model is desirable. By using a military metaphor, the Army has resisted the trend toward feminization and liberalization that has plagued other established denominations.

·      High standards are good. Call many, choose few. Effectiveness is more important than size.

·      Most churches try to be everything to everyone. But a church that focuses like a laser on a particular aspect of the gospel will outperform the multi-focused church every time.

·      It’s time to lift the de facto ban on military imagery and songs in the church. How long has it been since we’ve been allowed to sing Onward Christian Soldiers? Military imagery does not create violent men; it helps them focus their passions on the good fight.

·      Instead of gender neutralizing our churches, we should celebrate both masculine and feminine expression. Androgyny has no place in God’s creation.

The death of men's ministry?

The Christian men’s movement is in steep decline. Ten years ago Promise Keepers packed hundreds of thousands of men into large stadiums in nineteen cities. Today, they’ve cut back to smaller arenas in seven towns. The National Coalition of Men’s Ministries drew fewer than 200 guys to its national conference in April. The Purpose Driven Men’s conference had to be canceled when just 37 signed up. Three weeks ago I offered the keynote address at the National Coalition of Presbyterian Men, which drew 95 guys from around the nation. The Presbyterian Women, who met two months earlier, had more than 3,000 at their gathering.

Why are Christian men taking a pass on these events? I think we’ve “been there, done that.” Whenever we gather, we know what to expect: singing, sermons and socializing. We’re asking men to shell out lots of time and money for the same experience they get for free on Sunday morning.

When somebody changes the formula, men respond. John Eldredge’s Wild at Heart boot camps are always a sellout. Sure, there’s a dollop of singing and some speaking, but there’s so much more. The ropes course. Walks in the high country. Stogies on the deck after dinner. As John’s Web site says, “We couldn’t offer this in a church setting, or in the basement of a hotel.”

Those of us who minister to men need to keep things fresh to keep them alive. Pray. Ask God how he would have you break out of your religious programming routines.

Book premieres in Polish

Wiadomości! Why Men Hate Going to Church was recently released in Polish. Titled Mezczyzni nienawidza chodizic do kosciola, the new version of the book comes in at over 400 pages (I guess Polish is a more complicated language than English). If you know someone in Poland who would benefit from this book, please let him know it’s available. The book is now available in Danish, Korean and English.

It's time to go for the guys

For sheer guts, you’ve gotta admire Bethel Church in Richland, WA. Their Mothers Day service was designed to reach men. Let me run that past you again: their Mothers Day service was targeted at men. Why? Mother’s Day is one of the three big Sundays that unchurched men attend services (the others being Christmas and Easter).

These crazy guys landed a helicopter outside the worship center. The foyer was festooned with model airplanes. Two man-lifts graced the auditorium. The title of Pastor Dave's sermon was "Man Lift" – how a man who follows Jesus lifts his entire family up.

If you’d like to see more photos from Man Lift Sunday, click here.

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