Best
books that explain why men dislike and/or avoid
church
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Why Men Hate Going to Church (Audio CD)
By David Murrow
Audio version of David Murrow's bestselling book.
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| The Church
Impotent: The Feminization of Christianity
by Leon J. Podles
Written by a Roman
Catholic, this exhaustive history traces the feminization
of the church back to medieval times. A must read
for anyone who wants to understand how Christianity
lost its masculine spirit.
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Best
books for women who are married to unchurched men
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When
He Doesn’t Believe: Help and Encouragement
for Women Who Feel Alone in Their Faith
By Nancy Kennedy I’ve
read all the books in this genre, and this is
the pick of the litter. It is well written and
hilarious in places, even to a male reader like
me. Nancy is funny, encouraging and very insightful.
Women – read this book!
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Surviving
a Spiritual Mismatch in Marriage
By Lee and Leslie Strobel The
prolific former journalist and Saddleback pastor
teamed up with his wife to write this book. Strobel’s
entry into this market is heavy on personal anecdotes
and advice. Like all of his books this one is
well written.
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| Unbelieving
Husbands and the Wives Who Love Them
By Michael Fanstone
Written by a British
evangelical pastor, Fanstone knows of what he
speaks: the gender gap in the British church is
enormous. As a man, Fanstone is able to take us
into the mind of an unsaved husband and does a
pretty good job of it.
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| Best books for understanding
men |
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| Wild at Heart:
Discovering the Secret of a Man's Soul
By John Eldredge
This bestseller resonates with men who find Christianity
boring and irrelevant as it is practiced today.
Eldredge’s vision of Godly men as wild,
dangerous, unfettered and free has found a receptive
audience. This book has taken the church by storm,
and I recommend this book as a prerequisite to
my own.
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| Healing The
Masculine Soul By
Gordon Dalbey
This volume was one of the inspirations for my
book. Dalbey draws upon his experience counseling
men to provide a very accurate window into their
souls. Gordon is a good writer and this book is
an easy read.
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| The Silence of Adam
By Larry Crabb
This little book
is packed with insight into the loss of manhood
in our society – and in the church. Crabb
identifies the causes of masculine passivity and
summons men to full-hearted living.
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| No More Christian Nice Guy
By Paul Coughlin
Paul Coughlin identifies a cancer that's growing in our churches today: an epidemic of passive, sweet nice guys who are failing to lead their churches, their families and their communities. Men, if you've ever wondered why there wasn't more to the Christian life than what you've experienced, read this book.
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| Best books for those interested
in men’s ministry |
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| Effective
Men’s Ministry: The Indispensable Toolkit
for Your Church By
Phil Downer, editor
A collection of
brief, enlightening essays from today’s
top men’s ministry experts. Learn from the
men who are actually creating thriving men’s
ministries in their local churches.
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| How
to Build a Life-Changing Men’s Ministry
By Steve Sonderman
A very practical
step-by-step guide that helps you take the excitement
of a men’s retreat or Promise Keepers’
weekend and turn that into a viable men’s
ministry. Sonderman founded the popular TOP GUN
ministry in Brookfield, Wisconsin
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| Best books on masculine spirituality |
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| Wildmen,
Warriors and Kings: Masculine Spirituality and the
Bible By
Patrick Arnold
A Catholic priest examines the masculine archetypes present in the Bible, and reveals how we as Christian men can benefit by modeling ourselves after them. You’ll never see the men of the Bible the same again.
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| Fire in the
Belly By
Sam Keen
This is not even
a religious book, but it’s one of the most
insightful ones I’ve read. And just about
every Christian leader I’ve ever mentioned
it to has read it, too. Although I don’t
agree with many of his zen-like conclusions, Keen
is such an incisive observer his book is definitely
worth a read.
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| Best books on boys |
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| Future Men
By Douglas
Wilson
This book teaches
readers how to stop fearing and to start embracing
the budding masculinity in their sons. Learn how
a boy growing up in a mainline congregation can
actually come out of the experience a Christian.
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| Raising a
Modern-Day Knight By
Robert Lewis
Throughout human
history, the men of society have been responsible
for initiating boys into manhood. Robert Lewis
offers a practical guide for any man who wants
to provide his sons with rites of passage.
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| Passed thru Fire
By Rick Bundschuh
Another great resource for understanding young male initiation. This book will whet your appetite for the accompanying DVD. Learn from a church in Hawaii that's reaching fatherless young men with the gospel.
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| Best books on creating a
more effective church |
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Why Nobody Learns Much of Anything at Church: And
How to Fix It By
Thom and Joani Schultz
This book is intended
as a Sunday school reform book, but read it with
men in mind. It’s amazingly insightful and
could serve as a blueprint for a re-thinking of
how we teach men.
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| Inside the
Mind of Unchurched Harry & Mary
By Lee Strobel
Written by a former
atheist who found God, this book is well written
and insightful.
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| Surprising
Insights from the Unchurched By
Thomas Rainer
This Baptist seminary
dean studied more than 350 formerly unchurched
men and women to find out why they had suddenly
started coming to church. Rainer’s findings
may surprise you.
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| Leading Beyond
the Walls By
Adam Hamilton
Hamilton built America’s
fastest-growing mainline congregation with a healthy
dose of the masculine spirit. If there’s
a future for the mainline, Hamilton has got it
squarely in his sights.
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| The Purpose
Driven Church By
Rick Warren
Don’t forget
the book that started a revolution. Warren’s
40 Days of Purpose have brought individual believers
to life, but our church structures remain amazingly
resistant to the changes that are needed. If you
haven’t read this book, do it!
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| The Second
Coming of the Church By
George Barna
This book literally
saved my faith. At a point when I was so frustrated
with church, Barna assured me I was not imagining
it; church structures were actually keeping me
from becoming the man God was calling me to be.
An amazingly insightful book, this book is a roadmap
for reform in our congregations.
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